My husband and I met in 2010 at the same church congregation, but it wasn't until the end of june 2011 that we actually started talking. By the end of August, we were married. Yes, you read that right. About two months. Don't judge me, I know that was crazy! I was 23, a single mother of two, surviving, providing and protecting myself and my girls while pushing myself to keep going. My now husband was 24, a young man seeking God, working hard, making better choices for himself

For the past month and a half, life has looked very different. After earning my Bachelor's degree in Psychology, I knew it was finally time to step into the field. It was time to stop learning only from textbooks and begin leaning from people. To gain the hands-on experience that will continue shaping me as I pursue higher education and, ultimately, the career God has placed on my heart. Not to mention that it has been a very long time since I had searched for a job! For year

I have always felt the need to stay busy because, to me, being busy meant being productive. But... I was wrong. Busy does not always mean productive. For a long time, I measured my days by how much I accomplished. If I checked every box on my to-do lost, I felt succesful. If I slowed down, I felt like I had somehow wasted the day. Can anyone else relate? So....What Is Productivity? I've recently had to take a step back and slow down. The kids and I are on summer break, which

Let's talk about it. Recently, I was chatting with a friend who kept expressing how tired and unhappy she felt. She shared that she often feels overwhelmed and notices a pattern where she'll be doing just fine for a while, and then suddenly finds herself feling anxious, irritable, emotional, and even a little depressed. Then she said, "It happens at least once a month." As soon as she said that, a lightbulb moment went off in my head. I laughed and said, "That sounds familiar

Trusting the Process Over the weekend, as I took some much needed time off to enjoy my family, I also took time to reflect on my life, the processes, and the outcomes. I realize that nearly everything meaningful has required a process. Growing up, I witnessed and experienced things that no child should have to endure. Violence in the home, emotional wounds, verbal abuse, sexual abuse, and instability shaped much of my early understanding of life. For many years, survival beca

If you had asked me years ago what faith looked like, I probably would have given you a basic textbook answer. Today, my answer is different. Faith is waking up everyday and choosing to trust God when uncertainty surrounds you, when the answers are unclear, and when the path ahead sems impossible to navigate. Throuhout my life, there have been seasons when I did not understand what God was doing. Seasons of uncertainty, disappointment, heartbreak, and waiting. Seasons where t

Womanhood is a journey, not a destination. It is not defined by a title, relationship status, career, or the number of responsibilities we carry. As a wife, mother, student, business owner, and community advocate, my days are filled with responsibilities. In the past I spent so much time taking care of everyone else that I rarely stopped to ask myself a simple question: Who am I outside of all the roles I carry? The truth is, many women find themselves asking this very same q

Functioning well in life is a challenge many women face daily. Whether you are a mother, wife, student, or an active member of your community, managing multiple roles requires balance, focus, and practical strategies. The ability to function effectively is not about doing everything perfectly but about finding ways to manage responsibilities while maintaining well-being. This post explores how women can unlock their potential by adopting essential strategies to function well

Motherhood is a path filled with moments of joy, challenge, growth, and transformation. It is a journey that reshapes identity, tests patience, and deepens love in ways few other experiences can. Every mother faces unique highs and lows, and embracing these moments helps build resilience and a deeper connection with both yourself and your child/children. This post explores the realities of motherhood, offering practical insights and encouragement for navigating its complex la